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The devastatingly relatable novel every new mum needs to read

Jul 04, 2026  Twila Rosenbaum  15 views
The devastatingly relatable novel every new mum needs to read

Lisa Owens' new novel, Natural Disaster, has been hailed as a must-read for every new mother. The book, which spans a single day in the life of an unnamed protagonist, captures the chaotic, loving, and often overwhelming experience of early motherhood with startling authenticity.

The story opens with a simple plan: the mother wants a perfect final day with her two young sons before returning to work. But reality intervenes in the form of a stuck double buggy, a sick child, and the relentless demands of caring for small humans. Owens, who based much of the narrative on her own experiences, said she wanted to portray the minute-to-minute experience of parenthood that is often missing from literature.

Inspired by Virginia Woolf's Mrs Dalloway and the high-stakes tension of films like Uncut Gems, Owens weaves together the profound and the trivial. The mother grapples with guilt over feeding her children sugary cereals, the exhaustion of endless nursery rhymes, and the deep, uncompromising love that comes with caring for a child. As she puts it in the novel, 'the point is that no single moment, neither wailing low nor euphoric high, can come close to representing the round-the-clock immersive theatre that is parenthood.'

A Decade in the Making

Owens' first novel, Not Working, was published in 2016, just months after the birth of her daughter. Her second child arrived less than two years later, and she found herself juggling childcare, screenwriting, and the slow process of bringing Natural Disaster to life. The 10-year gap between novels, she admits, is partly due to the demands of motherhood. 'I wouldn't change that,' she said, but acknowledged that writing and parenting were less compatible than she had hoped.

The novel draws heavily on Owens' own experiences of trying to balance creative work with raising children. She recalls googling 'Greta Gerwig childcare' during the production of Barbie, desperate for models of how other mothers manage. This search for solidarity and practical advice is a thread that runs through Natural Disaster, which has been praised for its honest and humorous depiction of the struggles new mothers face.

The book's structure—a single day—was chosen deliberately. Owens noted that days are the classic unit of parenthood, especially when children are tiny, and that the form allowed her to capture the rapid shifts between the existential and the mundane. 'I hadn't seen that kind of minute-to-minute experience on the page,' she said, explaining her desire to fill a gap in literature about early motherhood.

The Influences Behind the Story

Owens cites multiple influences for Natural Disaster, from high-brow literature to everyday picture books. The novel is prefaced with a quote from Mrs Dalloway, and its protagonist, like Clarissa Dalloway, is a woman trying to manage a single day. But the tone is closer to the frantic energy of the film 24, where the hero must neutralise threats on little sleep. Owens' heroine, however, faces a different kind of danger: a double buggy stuck in a corner shop door, a child's fever, and a partner away at a work conference.

Picture books by Jill Murphy and Janet and Allan Ahlberg also shaped the novel. Owens wrote a piece for The New York Times about how children's books helped her process the day. 'Good art has the power to move us, but it also has the parent-like capacity to contain us,' she wrote. This idea of containment—of finding comfort in stories that mirror our own struggles—is central to Natural Disaster.

The novel also explores the isolation of modern parenting. The protagonist's 'village' is reduced to her own resources, and she feels an unrelenting pressure to be perfect. Even the simplest task, like changing bedsheets, becomes a loaded negotiation. Owens captures the mental load of motherhood, where women often end up handling all the logistics while also bearing the weight of guilt and self-criticism.

One of the most striking aspects of Natural Disaster is its honesty about the love that co-exists with exhaustion. 'To be in such great demand,' thinks the mother, 'will she ever know love like it again? Nothing could have prepared her for this: the unimaginable bliss of true, unconditional love. But also the crushing pressure of it.' This dual reality is something many new mothers will recognise.

The book does not offer easy solutions or a neat conclusion. Instead, it immerses the reader in the chaos and beauty of a single day—a day that is both ordinary and extraordinary. Owens has said she wanted to reflect the truth that 'doing good art has the power to move us, but it also has the parent-like capacity to contain us.'

In a literary landscape that often overlooks the realities of early motherhood, Natural Disaster stands out as a powerful and necessary work. It is a novel that speaks directly to the experiences of countless women, offering recognition, comfort, and a much-needed sense of solidarity.


Source: MSN News


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